My Thoughts on Being a GFE Courtesan

Some time ago, I had an interesting conversation with a friend about what makes a good GFE escort—or a good escort in general. She shared her opinion, and it got me thinking about my own approach as a GFE courtesan.

In her view, to be a successful GFE escort, you need to “know your market.” She believed that offering a GFE service (I personally don’t like calling it a “service”) comes with many limits. For her, it meant no BDSM, no PSE, no role-play—basically, a long list of things you shouldn’t do. I found this idea quite restrictive.

Professionalism or Something Else?

The conversation moved to “professionalism.” She talked about how being professional means following certain rules—what to do, what not to do, and so on. Honestly, this kind of talk made me uncomfortable. I don’t see myself as a businesswoman following a todo-checklist. I see myself as a companion, someone who creates meaningful and enjoyable experiences.

What stood out to me was the contradiction between her words and how she presented herself online. Her website talked about romance and connection, but her tone felt more like a guidebook for running a business. For me, that’s not what GFE is about.

What GFE Means to Me

To me, companionship cannot be controlled by rules or labels. Every meeting is unique because it involves two people connecting for the first time. Chemistry and connection are not things you can create artificially or guarantee by offering specific “services.” They happen naturally when both people put in effort and share the same desire for a special experience.

As a GFE courtesan at London, I value the real friendships I’ve built. These moments are not about rules or professionalism. They are about being present, having fun, and sharing genuine emotions.

What I Love About Being a GFE Courtesan

Now that I’ve explained what I don’t like about strict definitions, let me tell you what I enjoy most about my work.

I love romance, laughter, and playful moments. I enjoy being sensual and exploring that together with someone. When I’m on a date, I lose myself in the moment, and I want my companion to feel the same. It’s not about business or transactions. It’s about creating something real, something memorable.

I love challenging someone’s mind as much as I enjoy having my own challenged. With me, it’s like going on a real date with a real woman who wants to make you feel special.

Why GFE Is Different

For me, being a GFE courtesan is not something you can fake or learn—it’s something that comes from within. It’s about how you see the world and how you connect with others.

Every relationship, no matter how brief, has meaning. Even small interactions can leave an impact. That’s why I focus on quality, not quantity, in my work. I believe that meaningful connections shape who we are as people. Engaging in shallow or fake relationships over and over again would feel empty and even harmful to me.

This is why I choose to do things my way. My goal is to create real, nourishing experiences that leave us both feeling fullfilledd.

So, Why GFE Courtesan?

Why do I call myself a courtesan instead of just an escort? Because it’s about more than the physical. It’s about connection, intimacy, and yes—because it’s sexier and more fun! ;P

For me, being a GFE courtesan is about sharing something real, not following rules or ticking boxes. It’s about passion, authenticity, and creating unforgettable moments together.

What are your thoughts? Does this resonate with you?

by Mia